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Grateful for “Joyfear”

May 19, 2012 By Donna Webeck

Source: quote-book.tumblr.com via Kim on Pinterest

Have you ever felt so consumed by something that both exhilarates and alarms you in equal parts? Are you ever driven by some inexplicable force that sees you risk your well-constructed armour against failure all because there is an energy compelling you to throw everything you have at that one dream that you so desperately want to achieve?

If you know of this fine line between pleasure and pain, then you, just like me, have discovered “joyfear”.

I stumbled across this very astute (and oh so apt) mantra when reading a piece by Krissy Brady (writers, do yourself a favour and read full post here) and was immediately struck by how this notion summed up perfectly the flux state of my being of late. I’d been riding a roller coaster range of emotions, having had my flame for fiction writing reignited, but at the same time dueling against a gnawing trepidation of rejection.

And even though the cloud of possible failure did not dissipate, I continued to feel compelled to write, even in the face of it.  Normally I’d succumb to the dread that is interwoven with anything that is associated with risk, but this past week I spurned it’s tempting advances and continued typing. 

And typing, typing, typing, all the while invigorated instead of anxious. And that, my writer friends, is the joy de vivre that is joyfear.

Leo Babauta, who gets the full cred for coining this clever term, explains this phenomenon in greater detail:

Joyfear is a mixture of intense joy and intense fear into one ball of powerful emotions that both lift me up and make me see things clearly when I hadn’t before. Having only joy is great. Having only fear sucks. But having both… that’s life-defining. Do not shy away from Joyfear. Seek it out. Recognize it when you happen upon it. Joyfear will change your life, and you’ll never forget the moment you find it.
Scary as it is to acknowledge out loud that I am legitimately working to pursue a dream, I have decided to feel the fear and do it anyway. Sure, I could be possibly setting myself up for some self imposed humiliation if I don’t achieve any success and will always find it hard to talk openly about my fiction writing as its always been a part of my writing world I kept closely guarded. But the flipside is I am also setting myself up for accountability; something I’ve been loathe to do in the past. You see, its easier to call it quits that way… But now the universe – and anyone else who cares – has full permission to kick my butt if I dare give in. 

So this is me actively – and very publicly – embracing the notion of joyfear. Long may this creative force reign supreme…
Proud to be linking up with the Kidspot/Maxabella inspired Grateful Project 
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Comments

  1. tahlia @ the parenting files says

    May 19, 2012 at 11:40 am

    what a great quote. I think we all need a little fear to push us that little more and to inspire us as well. keep going x

  2. Kelly Exeter says

    May 20, 2012 at 12:28 am

    Love it Donna – your joyfear energy is just jumping off the page at me!

    If we only ever pursued those things that were ‘sure bets’ I don’t think life would be very satisfying at all 🙂

  3. Kylie @ Octavia and Vicky says

    May 21, 2012 at 10:17 am

    I think my current writing journey is also in a joyfear stage. I feel like I’m standing on the edge of a precipice… sometimes as if I’m falling from it! But it’s great to be FEELING. And doing.

  4. Maxabella says

    May 22, 2012 at 12:09 am

    I know that Joyfear only too well. I am very, very happy to hear that you are writing so furiously. Keep going, lovely! x

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